Our 4th Behavioural code® – Love, giving it & recieving it.

This is the 4th Blog in my series exploring our ‘7 Behavioural Codes®’ – the primal, human feelings we are all seeking to feel rich in and that we feel are in balance with each other. Understanding these codes helps us to get clarity over what may be driving our behaviours – the ones we like and the ones we don’t like so much. These patterns of behaviour are often set up from a young age and unless we can understand what’s driving them, ask whether they are helping us or hindering us, we will find them difficult habits to break. You may want to start at the beginning & read the first in the series.

Our 4th Code is all about feeling unconditional Love, to be able to give it and to receive it. When we feel that we are not fulfilled in this vital area, then all our behaviour will be about seeking to feel more love. Unsurprisingly we tend to feel this code & any effects of a lack of it in our chests, heart & lung area. I see this deep need to feel Love as having 3 equally important componants:-

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Our 3rd Behaviourial code® – Importance, Relevence, Identity, Raised Self-esteem.

This is the third in my 7 part series where I invite you to think about the basic (& complex) primal, human feelings or codes that we all have as part of our healthy whole. Understanding how & when we are able to fulfill these codes – whether we can do this in a healthy […]

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Our 2nd Behavioural Code® – Diversity, Creativity, Selection, Risk

This Blog is the second in my 7 part series exploring the 7 Behavioural Codes® as identified by Moira Geary, my teacher & Mentor, Creator of QTT® Personal Development Methods. If you haven’t already done so please go back to the first in the series to understand a general overview of ‘The 7 Behavioural Codes®’ […]

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How to understand our ‘7 Behavioural Codes®’ & what part they play in our choices.

As a holistic health practitioner of many years I have been aware of & interested in the Chakra systems that many Health Modalities believe in & focus on.  Simply put, these are the perceived energy centers that we all have that govern the different aspects of our health – physical, emotional & spiritual. They are represented by different colours & the primary focus is generally associated with the area of the body they are located & then the various parts of us that are connected to that area. The Chakra system originated in Eastern Medicine systems & believes that true health is only possible if all Chakras are able to hold & move energy both individually and synergistically with all Chakras in balance & working in harmony.

Whilst Homeopathy comes at this from a slightly different perspective there is much cross over and shared understanding & there are some Homeopaths who practice Homeopathy exclusively from the Chakra perspective. Indeed I have prescribed on this basis myself on occasion with success and I am always grateful for the many different ways of achieving positive results for my Clients.

When I studied QTT® Personal Development methods with it’s Creator & my Mentor Moira Geary, I was excited to embrace a similar system of understanding – ‘The 7 Behavioral Codes®’. Whilst the 7 Codes are not the same as the Chakra system, there are similarities and I have had the truth of these codes borne out time & time again in my own personal experience & with my Clients. To me they are an invaluable tool both with my QTT work, Life Coaching, Mentoring and now my Homeopathic practice, they make sense, they are simple & practical and offer deep understanding of Health & dis-ease.

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How to Respond rather than React.

How many times have you found yourself agreeing to do something or turning something down, only to find yourself a short time later, saying to yourself ‘Why did I do that? That’s not what I want at all?’

It can feel like you responded in a kind of automatic, knee-jerk kind of a way, that once you’ve had time to think it through, seems to be conflicting with what you really want or seems not to make sense? Similarly are there certain situations, behavior’s or language in other people that are ‘guaranteed’ to induce or trigger a predictable reaction or feeling in you, and even though you recognise this, you seem unable to stop it or change it?

It can feel that there’s someone else or that some part of you is inside and running the show, pulling the strings despite your best intentions – this can contribute to us feeling out of control, that nothing we do makes a difference and ‘Life just happens, what can we do?’

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